Tuesday, December 5, 2017

Success & EQ

 It`s the last month of the year again everybody! Definitely, we all have something to be thankful for.
People who do not succeed have one distinguishing trait in common. They know all the reasons for failure, and have what they believe to be air-tight alibis to explain away their own lack of achievement. Some of these alibis are clever, and a few of them are justifiable by the facts. But alibis cannot be used for money. The world wants to know only one thing - HAVE YOU ACHIEVED SUCCESS? A character analyst compiled a list of the most commonly used alibis.
The philosophy presented by Napoleon Hill in his immortal book, "Think and Grow Rich" makes every one of them obsolete. Such as; IF I didn't have a wife and family . . ..IF I had money . . . etc.
IF * * * and this is the greatest of them all * * * I had the courage to see myself as I really am, I would find out what is wrong with me, and correct it, then I might have a chance to profit by my mistakes and learn something from the experience of others. For I know that there is something WRONG with me, or I would now be where I WOULD HAVE BEEN IF I had spent more time analyzing my weaknesses, and less time building alibis to cover them. The word "alibi" has been replaced by the word "excuse" but the meanings remain the same. As an individual in an association, and as a Yoruba man, do you remember this song “Yoruba Ronu”? Get organized! Get your act together! What is your contribution toward the success of the society, host nation and your association? What's your excuse for not achieving more, and How can you turn that excuse into positive action? Emotional intelligence can be a key differentiator. Again, efforts to build emotional intelligence can be a challenge, but the effort will most definitely be worth it. Come join us! Young or old. Let`s build the house!
We are helping you to count your blessings one by one, if you were born in December! Therefore, we celebrate with you and we pray that December ko ni di gbogbo wa meru lo (will not pack you and me with luggage).
Happy Holidays everybody!
Olusegun

Aare YAJ