Tuesday, April 30, 2019

Courage & Change


Hello and Eku deede iwoyi o.
Courage is one of my core values.
I am not talking about the type of extreme heroism we see in movies, such as the soldier who throws himself on the grenade to protect his comrades. You see, everyday courage does not require sacrifice. I firmly believe that the most courageous thing you can do is to be yourself or what you want to be. To stand true to who you are in the face of adversity. Everyday examples of courage include: Voicing your disagreement or disapproval, especially when it is unpopular to do so. To keep pursuing your goals, even when you have not been getting the results you desire. Giving your best when you are faced with bad health Ending a relationship which, you know isn’t right for you, Expressing your feelings, Getting out of bed when you are really struggling. These are just some of the endless examples of everyday courage. You take these actions, not because you want to but because deep inside you know it is the right thing to do. Because when courage is one of your core values, you hold yourself accountable for each decision you make and action you take to bring about change in your community, etc. It is not only the outcome which is important to you, but it is also the fact that you do what is right by you. You ensure that you do what is right, even when it is the most difficult/inconvenient option. Nobody said that being courageous was easy but when you live true to your core values, peace, joy, happiness, and confidence come naturally. We rejoice with you if you were born in May. We wish you a Meaningful May! May you all have a peaceful May, everyone!
Olusegun Thompson
President, YAJ.

Tuesday, April 2, 2019

What are you not willing to change?

Hello and Eku deede iwoyi o.
People resist change sometimes because of tradition too. The assumption is that if something is tradition it must be the best way. To some extent, it may be true, but it is not necessarily so. If a tradition connects you to other people or to your personal history, it may be a good thing. If not, then it may be time to try something else. I have to admit that I am a personal growth fanatic. There are few things I enjoy more than learning something new. But as much as I am dedicated to progress, there are some things that I am not willing to change such as my faith or my commitment to integrity, family, and generosity and believing in people. Some things are not worth compromising at any price. I want to encourage you to think about the non-negotiables in your life. Once you do that everything else should be open to change. We rejoice with you if you were born in April. Some call it April fool, for you and everyone it shall be April Full. Full of goodness and favor all the way through. Have a wonderful April! 
Olusegun Thompson 
President, YAJ